The Unprincipled Opposition
Saturday, April 17th, 2010Conservatives are called stupid, ignorant, racist and worse. Recently, I ran smack into this at a three-day forensic psychology conference. The presenters were highly educated professionals, leaders in their field. The first presenter said Pennsylvania was Philadelphia and Pittsburgh, with nothing else in between. The second day, a different presenter stated that “Southern racist Democrats who opposed civil rights are Republicans now.” The last presenter, Dr. X, referenced Sarah Palin as “the idiot who wrote her speech on her hand.” He described a jury in Binghamton, NY as “arriving in pickup trucks, gun racks in the back, dressed like American Gothic.” Finally, he asserted that no one got death threats before the Tea Parties.
The message was clear. Rural people are ignorant at best, stupid at worst and always bigots. Republicans and conservatives are all three. The tone was contemptuous, the attacks disdainful and personal.
On the last day I stood up and stated, “I drive a pickup truck, I sometimes have guns in the back, I helped organize a tea party and, by the way, my wife is from Binghamton.” I asked for simple respect and, quoting Lincoln, asked the presenters and attendees to access “the better angels of their nature.” Dr. X refused to apologize. After the session, several colleagues approached me, were complimentary and glad I spoke up. One, who happened to be African-American, said “Thanks, man, I’m a Republican.”
As we were leaving the hotel the next morning my wife Jo, who is an American beauty, not American Gothic, introduced herself to Dr. X as “the idiot from Binghamton” and attempted to educate him about stereotypes. He was cordial but remained unapologetic.
What gives rise to the contempt of the arrogant? They believe they’re intellectually and morally superior. It’s a step down a dangerous path of dehumanization.
We conservatives need to speak up. In doing so, we give like-minded people the courage to find their voices as well. Expect emotion-driven, personal attacks. Expect to feel angry and/or insulted; it’s only natural. Remember that the attacks are rooted in arrogance and contempt. Take several deep breaths, in through the nose and out through the mouth, slowly. Respond factually. Smile - it helps reduce tension. As Churchill said, “Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.” Don’t be intimidated. They’re not very scary. If this is the best the high-powered brains I endured for three days can come up with, we have nothing to fear.